Old Wives’ Tales in a New Man’s (and Woman’s) Generation

There are studies relating “Old Wives’ Tales” to pregnancy, health, behavior, and every aspect covered by these beliefs. But there is not one which could conclude the effects of these concepts against a generation. It would have been nice to see the difference between how the children of 1970’s saw superstitions in comparison to those in 2013. Is it treated with more fear or is it all the more ignored? Why this is important is more than just poking fun at kids to drive caution and doubt into their heads as these “tales” were meant to long ago. It is about knowing whether as the time changes, will values, as well as beliefs, evolve with it?

To make this a bit more interesting, we will visit taboos, superstitions, and beliefs around the world. We will pick the outstanding ones and relate to it with the 21st century mind.

It is considered bad luck in Jewish culture to buy anything for the unborn.

Pregnancy Superstitions from Around the World

Come to think of it, it does make practical sense. For a pregnant couple of today, budget comes first before splurging on a baby whose gender is yet to be known. Or say even after you found out if it is a boy or a girl, it’s a bit more realistic to spend for and buy baby stuff when a woman is close to giving birth especially since at  this time, you have an estimate of the child’s size. There are onesies and shoes marked as “infant” size but not all babies are born the same height and weight.

Poland and Handbag: “It is considered bad luck for a woman to put her handbag or purse on the floor. Doing that will make render her broke and may never have any money in it from then on.

World Superstitions

A woman or a man (of course there are male handbags) who leaves this personal accessory on the floor may have some issues with behavior. Granting that there is a rack, a hook or a table nearby where one can leave the bag, putting it on the floor could be a sign of stress. Stress to most can cause mood swings and irritability. But to some, the lack of motivation is response enough. That or a clear giveaway of laziness could be the reason. Take both stress and laziness into account then one is inclined to work less, thus, increasing the chances for purse bankruptcy. In another sense, you can leave it on the floor as a way of saying “I am buying a new handbag so I am never going to put money in this one.”

The Germans warned not to answer a witch’s question for fear that she might take something from you.

Taboos and Superstitions Around the World

If you answer a witch’s question, she is most definitely taking something from you – your answer. Any witch, wizard, man, woman, or child for that matter most likely will take something from you if you answer their query. Apart from your knowledge, you are giving them a piece of you that is your behavior. The way you grimace, act when you answer, compose your words, will give your interviewer an initial assessment of who you are. There is in fact a behavioral interview within a job application. This will help an employer (or that witch) decide whether or not to hire you. Maybe the best way to say this Old Wive’s Tale is “Be careful how you answer a witch’s (or your boss’) question.”

Koreans and “Fan death”

Five Korean Superstitions that will take you by Surprise

As outrageous as this may sound, it is a very popular and the most appealing Old Wives’ Tale to foreigners. The Koreans believed that anyone who sleeps in a room with the fan on overnight will die. This actually happens to be true. The KCPB (Korea Consumer Protection Board) recorded 20 fan deaths between 2003 and 2005 alone. A 21st century mind will openly consider that from June to August, where the temperature is between 25 to 30 degrees, air circulation in a room could be crucial. There are at least one to two fan deaths in the length of summer. They explain that with the room temperature, the artificial delivery of air by the fan can cause suffocation or hypothermia.

Do not show your soles to another person, the Arabians and Asians feel that this is a display of contempt.

Middle East Traveling

Sage Francis, a 21st-century hip-hop artist has a song that could give light to this belief. Owing to his poetic rap license, “Climb Trees” may look too cryptic and disconnected from this taboo. But for one verse, he explains that the Devil resides under the earth and “…the only perspective he would have of people would be the soles of their shoes.” Whether he shares this belief with those who authored the superstition, his conviction is rather theological but well founded. For practical reasons under etiquette, you wouldn’t want to show other people the unsightly side of your shoes, would you?

If you ask me…

From where I come from, we have more. I bet you have more from your country, too. Be it a superstition, a taboo, Old Wive’s Tales, they’re are all cut from the same cloth. These are concepts that were once meant to scare us, but which were based on some truth. The phrase “Old Wives” doesn’t make it any different because somehow, as the time moves forward, an “old” “wife” (which means woman by the definition of the phrase) will pass it on to the next generation. This is not to impress fear but if not to be a form of caution, then at least it could be some sort of entertainment for the youth.

References:

  1. Belly Belly.com:Old Wives’ Tales and Pregnancy-Girl or Boy?
  2. Cracked.com:5 Old Wives’ Tales About Health (Confirmed by Science)
  3. Woman’s Intuition is no Old Wife’s Tale
  4. Listverse:10 Old Wives Tales that are True
  5. Average Fetal Length and Weight Chart
  6. Your Newborn’s Weight:What’s Normal, What’s Not
  7. About.com:Behavioral Interviews
  8. Top 7 Behavior-Based Job Interview Questions
  9. Ask a Korean:Fan Death is Real!
  10. Sage Francis-Climb Trees Lyrics

About the author

After a brief albeit memorable experience in the hotel industry as a PR and Marketing Communications Specialist, Arlyn May “Amber” Bongay has made peace with the reality of being a full-time mother. Recently giving birth to their third child, her career has taken a backseat and is presently enjoying life as a mother of three beautiful girls. Although most often (if not always) bogged down at home with Mommy duties, she continues to be an advocate of Violence Against Women, HIV & AIDS Awareness, and Financial Education.

She was awarded last year by a popular newspaper in their city as the Performing Artist of the Year for her outstanding performances in Eve Ensler's Vagina Monologues, which is her participation in the advocacy for Women's Rights. She chaired the second photo exhibit on expressive photography for their campaign on HIV & AIDS for the second year and she is a happy distributor in life insurance, where she practices her advocacy for Financial Education as a Licensed Financial Advisor and soon a Registered Financial Planner. That and she is happy to maintain her role as a tickler of life.

She owes her diverse knowledge in other fields to her educational background. She took up Architecture in College then Nursing as a second course and proceeded to a short course in Massage Therapy. So while being a certified Draftswoman and Massage Therapist, she is also a spokeswoman for health and welfare organizations.

To further extend her views in life, she became an English and Soft Skills trainer for a leading American call center. But her writing goes a long way back to Grade School where she began as a staff writer. She eventually worked her way to college as a scholar-Editor in a school publication for a known University. Even then, she has contributed not only to the college paper but to the popular newspapers in her city until today.

She is the author of two original plays, one which has been staged twice. She is married to Jumbo Vedrero Bongay. They now have three deliciously named daughters, Jam, Jelly, and Jube. She is still thinking of pursuing her dreams of publishing her long-biding novels.